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Before I met my bf I had quite a few guys "rushing" me. It was a real turn-off. It was almost as if they wanted to call someone their boyfriend so fast, and they were almost pushing for a connection. There were even quick declarations of love from just talking to me and I was like, dude, really? You love me? You don't even know me! They were nice guys but their rush left me doubting their sincerity and maturity.

You say you are easy going and I understand your need to vent but have you reflected on YOU and YOUR BEHAVIOR in these past encounters? It's so easy to point fingers and generalize others. If the same thing is happening over and over, people pull away from you, etc., you need to do some self-reflection.

Are you looking for someone to entertain you? Hold your hand every minute of the day? Do you always have a drama? Do you text the new person excessively? Are you looking for a LTR to kill the boredom of your life? Are you pushing for a connection?

As far as others just being after some tail:
you have to hold the line on what you are comfortable with physically and don't apologize for it. Being up front and honest that you want to just date and wait for physical intimacy does limit the pool but you have to accept that if those are your values. Just own it and be happy with your decision.

My philosophy is: do things you enjoy and you'll be surprised where the elusive gay will turn up!

Source: http://gayspeak.com/showthread.php?t=19664

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